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Time to reverse 'narcissisim epidemic' (The Sunday Times, January 17 2010)

I cannot agree more with wat LWL wrote in this article. That our young people are plagued with the 'narcissism epidemic' that is fast spreading like cancer; infiltrating into every aspects of their lives.

I see it being so prevalent in today's culture. On the bus, in the train, and even just walking along the streets. The oblivion, our young wear on their faces, towards people or matters that require attention is startlingly painful. How is it that one can still comfortably sit (in the 'reserved' zone in trains) with a preggie woman or elderly in front of him/her and pretend to be sleeping??? Won't their conscience be pricked? This is just 1 of the many examples I can cite.

What exactly is the root of this social problem? Parenting? Education? There is no one main cause if you ask me. Its just many factors culminating into the pattern of living we see in our young today.

But something that was mentioned in the article resonates in my heart i.e. "a nurturing school that not only teaches a child academic subjects but also builds her character, together with caring but firm parents, is the most practical way of reversing the narcissism epidemic."

Having spent a considerably good 1.5 years in a school (prior to NIE), I've experienced and witnessed this epidemic and no doubt, the face of education must change if we want to see a more resilient, civic-conscious, responsible and non-narcissistic generation. I hope I get to see the transformation in my life-time.

How interesting & timely this article came about. Am about to head out for my teaching practicum 2 and then formal posting in 5 months time. I can't help but admit its a sign/direction of the kind of mentality I should adopt when I go about my teaching career. It has always been my belief that character development is key and I'm not there to further push for academic excellence (as it is, there are many teachers who can do that!) but I'll advocate for character building and will take it upon myself to be part of the DART (Disaster & Rescue Team) recovery process to save this generation, whom we claim to be future leaders of this nation.

God Bless Singapore!

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